Is it Really That Hard

Awhile ago, I watched an atheist youtuber and commented something like "this youtuber has good points that makes me question my faith" and it started this huge argument in the comments between christians and atheists(that's still going on like 2 months later)... it's just like.. how long can people keep at it? Why can't we find a common ground? Christians versus Christians, Atheists versus Atheists, Christians versus Atheists, etc. Is it really that hard to respect each other?

Also, I don't know why I bother coming on this site anymore
Actually, I'm not sure why I joined in the first place
It seems 90% of content on here is people arguing over bible interpretation
I came here to meet friends of Jesus,
Not to be told how I'm supposed to worship him, how I'm supposed to act, what I'm supposed to believe, etc.

So idk if I'll try to find another site or not but I probably won't come on here as often, not that I come on here often anyways.

Just my two cents.